The Meaning Behind Memorial Day: Paying Respect to Those Who have Fallen

A US soldier plays taps at the Luxembourg American Cemetery in a Memorial Day service honoring the American soldiers who gave their lives in World War II, Hamm, Luxembourg, May 30, 1946. (Photo by Underwood Archives/Getty Images)
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Memorial Day is often looked at as a time to have fun, grill some burgers and hot dogs, jump in a lake, and celebrate the start of summer. However, the American holiday has a much more somber history and is meant to honor the men and women who have died while serving in the U.S. military and not to be confused with Veteran’s Day which is honoring those alive who served.

This year, it falls on Monday, May 29th and every year a national moment of remembrance takes place at 3:00 pm local time.

MAY 27 1971, MAY 29 1971, MAY 30 1971 World War I veterans reminisce at Saturday's memorial Day parade Dwight Williams, 75, left, talks with Jesse A. Snyder, 72, before beginning march

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World War I veterans reminisce in 1971

 

Memorial Day began in the years after the Civil War and was originally called Decoration Day. It became an official federal holiday in 1971 and while many people host parties or BBQs, some observe the day by visiting cemeteries or memorials, honoring those that were lost in battle. Some records show that the earliest tributes began in the late 1860s, with Americans decorating graves and sharing songs and prayers for fallen soldiers.

(Original Caption) Arlington, Va.: Small American flags are placed on the graves of America's war dead in Arlington National Cemetery in preparation for the observance of Memorial Day.

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Small American flags are placed on the graves of America’s war dead in Arlington National Cemetery in preparation for the observance of Memorial Day

 

While it is unclear where the tradition originated exactly, Waterloo, New York has been named the official birthplace of Memorial Day. This is because the town hosted a community-wide event starting in 1866 where businesses were closed in order to decorate graves of soldiers and honor them.

MAY 30 1970, MAY 31 1970 Missy Morehead, 8, of 458 Gilpin St., used her teeth to hold her flag when she had to use her hands to clap during Memorial Day parade Saturday. Missy is perched on shoulders of her father, R.W. Morehead

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Father and daughter at a parade in 1970

 

The date was chosen because it wasn’t the anniversary of any one battle and could honor soldiers everywhere. For many years, Memorial Day was always observed on May 30th but was later changed to the last Monday in May to create a three-day weekend for federal employees. This law came about in 1971, which also declared the day an official federal holiday. Now, many cities host a parade on Memorial Day, honoring our fallen soldiers. Many people also choose to wear a red poppy in remembrance, a tradition that started in World War I based on a poem In Flanders Fields by John McCrae. No matter what you choose to do on Memorial Day, it is important to remember the true meaning of the holiday and honor those who lost their lives fighting for our freedoms.

WATERBURY, CT - MAY 24: Marchers play drums during the Memorial Day Parade as it passes through downtown on May 24, 2015 in Waterbury, Connecticut. Across America towns and cities will be celebrating veterans of the United States Armed Forces and the sacrifices they have made. Memorial Day is a federal holiday in America and has been celebrated since the end of the Civil War

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Marchers play drums during the Memorial Day Parade as it passes through downtown on May 24, 2015 in Waterbury, Connecticut.

 

Veterans, from left to right, John Tabor, Edgar Fowdle, and Harry Meadows, pay tribute to fallan comrades buried in the Cemetary of the U.S. Soldiers. The graves are decorated in preparation for Memorial Day

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John Tabor, Edgar Fowdle, and Harry Meadows, pay tribute to fallan comrades buried in the Cemetary of the U.S. Soldiers. The graves are decorated in preparation for Memorial Day

 

GRAY, ME - MAY 28: 17 empty black painted chairs with 17 helmets and 17 flowers at Gray's Memorial Day parade and ceremonies May 28, 1991, represent Maine's 17 POW/MIAs still unaccounted for.

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17 empty black painted chairs with 17 helmets and 17 flowers at Gray’s Memorial Day parade and ceremonies on May 28, 1991, represent Maine’s 17 POW/MIAs still unaccounted for.

 

UNITED STATES - MAY 30: James Manico takes it easy in carriage as his sister, Gail (left), 4, watches the Memorial Day Parade on Eastern Parkway, Brooklyn

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James Manico takes it easy in carriage as his sister, Gail (left), 4, watches the Memorial Day Parade on Eastern Parkway, Brooklyn., May 30, 1959

 

037469 01: (NO NEWSWEEK - NO US NEWS) President Ronald Reagan observes Memorial Day at the National Cemetery May 27, 1985 in Arlington, VA. Reagan's administration was marked by economic recovery, military involvement in Grenada, Central America, Lebanon, and Libya, and improved relations with the Soviet Union.

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President Ronald Reagan observes Memorial Day at the National Cemetery May 27, 1985

 

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